She left me lonely With love in her eyes Like a long lost sister Saying last goodbyes Oh but she loves the fire Just as much as she likes sighs You ain't ever lonely If there's love in her eyes Cleared my conscious, Called it clean Like a hallowed homestead Covered in gasoline Oh and no one loves a liar As much as they love nicotine Now I ain't saying nothing That I don't mean I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak When my mind Has its seasoned grip on me I don't have to be a victim To the forces you can't see I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak Lost a friend then To the TV screen Like a fallen firefly Drawn to the lamplight scene But I loved my time there Just as much as you loved me Never let your heart Get in the way of your dreams I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak When my mind Has its seasoned grip on me I don't have to be a victim To the forces you can't see I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak My mom got cancer So I grew my hair Like a raised middle finger To the man upstairs Oh but God loves a fighter Just as much as he loves prayers My mom beat cancer And I'll keep my hair I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak When my mind Has its seasoned grip on me I don't have to be a victim To the forces you can't see I won't be defined By who I am when I'm weak