If you don't respect yourself, no one's gonna respect you If you don't love yourself, no one's gonna love you It's a special kind of love, a very special kind of love, A very very special kind of love, yeah It's a special kind of love, a special kind of love, A very very special kind of love [Verse 1] First verse go's out to the girls, be proud of yourself But don't just take pride in your outer shell They take mens advances for granted Cause it's common that we bother them Thats why so many young women can't take a compliment You'd probably get put off if I called you And probably get turned on if I ignored you Make up caked up to cover up whats under there All your facebook friends see pics of you in your underwear He treats you like a princess, your not impressed The truth is you'd probably like him more if he did less You change the colour of your hair and the colour of your eyes When will you realise that this stuff is a diguise I sympathise certainly, seeing Jordan on tv mentally legitimise surgery You'll only be truly loved by someone else, when you learn to respect and to love yourself It's a special kind of love, a very special kind of love, A very very special kind of love, yeah It's a special kind of love, a special kind of love, A very very special kind of love It's a special kind of love, a very special kind of love, A very very special kind of love, yeah It's a special kind of love, a special kind of love [Verse 2] Second verse go's out to the males of the species The ones who've got different women for each week What's next? i'll break down the player complex And tell you what the motive behind it is cause it's not sex Most people at some point got their heart broke Misery loves company some people just can't cope A man that hops beds cause he's scared to sleep alone Is the same as a loose women that can't keep 'em closed Your both in the same boat, this is what you need to know A man gets called a player, as for the woman she's a hoe The truth is they both are insecure people trying to mend their broke hearts If you brag that you've slept with thousands of girls All that tells me is that you don't value yourself You'll only be truly loved by someone else, when you learn to respect and to love yourself It's a special kind of love, a very special kind of love, A very very special kind of love, yeah It's a special kind of love, a special kind of love, A very very special kind of love It's a special kind of love, a very special kind of love, A very very special kind of love, yeah It's a special kind of love, a special kind of love