As for your question about what it means to be vulnerable, I would have to say that it means to be able to be humiliated And the word, Which unfortunately carries such judgment and negativity, Actually comes from the word. I think it's "of the ground," So it's basically, humus or earth. So to be brought to the ground. And yes, I think in answering your question Do we want or is being vulnerable a good thing, I would say yes, it's how we grow. Love you, Bye