I wore a ring, a ring that had worn me And oh, have I prayed my hands were still bare I wore a smile, that did nothing for me And oh, have I wondered Why is it still there? I wore a rope, to climb up the ladder And oh, have I prayed it'd spare me a fall I wore a smile, to make me feel better And oh, have I wondered Why wear it at all? I think it's 'bout time you quit paying in flowers I'm a grown woman now and I charge for my hours I know we got messed up, but I ain't getting dressed up for you We ain't children no more I can't figure out what you're trying to forgive me We can cry it out, baby, or you can simply just leave me I know I'm a mess-up, but you got to quit playing dress-up With a grown-up girl I wore a heart, a heart nearly broken And oh, have I prayed they'd leave it as is And I wore my name, I shall not be spoken For, I am not here - to love and to please. To laugh and to be To hurt with no pain To smile with no joy To cry with no sound. What's in it for me? I think it's 'bout time you quit paying in flowers I'm a grown woman now and I charge for my hours I know we got messed up, but I ain't getting dressed up for you We ain't children no more I can't figure out what you're trying to forgive me We can cry it out, baby, or you can simply just leave me I know I'm a mess-up, but you got to quit playing dress-up With a grown-up girl I wore a flag of unfitting colors And oh, have I prayed they'd flatter me more And yet we all wear it, we all bear with it - and we all wonder what for And yet we all find it, some more - some less blinded, by what it was before And then we all hide it, but at least we have tried - to wear it once more.