My mother quit making her own sweet tea When we moved to Bowling Green A few months after my brother Will was born She used to be a bumblebee 'Til she slowed down talking to dad and me My brother became something she ignored One night she slept for three days straight The next four weeks, she'd get headaches Complained how she couldn't sleep no more She wrote to dad how she felt misplaced She knew love shouldn't feel this way And there ain't no getting back to how it was before But what scares me the most About growing old Is what if all I remember winds up gone I know the day will come when we all move on But most of what she took wasn't her own ♪ When she left, my father cried I was angry, but I tried So he had someone there for him He took her loose ends and strung 'em tight With a bottle of wine from their wedding night I still don't know how he kept from caving in But what scares me the most About growing old Is what if all I remember winds up gone I know the day will come when we all move on But most of what she took wasn't her own ♪ That morning was hot and I couldn't breathe From my tie and folks talking to me As if what they said could steal me away from here Family members that I didn't know Passed my brother around 'til they had to go So we could start picking up what she left in the air Now it's gonna be steel toed boots and oven mitts Dad will take on roles that will halfway fit And do his best to show we weren't to blame Well, look back on how he handled it How the hardest years went without a hitch From a hard-earned faith he'd find along the way But what scares me the most About growing old Is what if all I remember winds up gone I know the day will come when we all move on But most of what she stole wasn't her own